Go in with a strong sense of what your rules and boundaries are, and with a sense of determination that you will stick to them. On the other hand, I realize the weekly list of parties can be overwhelming to someone new to NYC’s sex party smorgasbord, so I’m going to see if I can make it a little easier for you to find the right party for you to lose your group sex cherry on by suggesting you take the following steps: Step #1: Use the guide below these steps to find a party that is closest to what is right for you. Step #2: Go to it. What body type are you? What’s your age? What are you into? Jocks? Skinny twinks? Stocky bears? Average-Joes? Leather? White guys, Black guys, Latino guys? Is this your first time or are do have a good amount of experience with group sex?ĭo you feel more comfortable in a social environment or an anonymous scene? Are you looking for big and crazy or small and intimate? How important is safety to you? Are you averse to getting STDs or are you a “fuck-it, comes-with-the-territory” type of guy who wants to keep your safe sex vs barebacking options open? As you can see, there are a lot of factors and personal preferences to take into consideration when coming up with a recommendation. What I personally would recommend to you depends entirely on you. I’m afraid I just don’t have enough time in my day to ask all the questions that need to be asked and find out all I need to know to give a helpful answer.
